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sometimes a big fight is good for the relationship... often times I have found that in relationships that there is such thing as too much of a good thing... Kinda restarts it, I dont know... But you guys have been married 4 times longer than any of my serious relationships, so Im sure you know more abut it than i do.

Good luck, he'll be back though....8]

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I agree. While there are other ways to work things out, it is better this way than to remain in a situation like that. Let things cool down. Maybe there are other things going on that you just are not aware of yet, and this was just the trigger. I've never left for longer than a couple of hours in the 15 years I've been married, but leaving for a couple of hours and driving, helped me clear my head.

On a lighter note in response to Clever's comment, did you know that 95% of all homeless men left home without their keys :)

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He's at my daughters house and has been since the other night...he's going to get tired of that, but now that I've had some time to think...maybe he can stay there a little longer...I enjoyed the whole bed last night, not having the covers stolen...and guess what no animals in the bed either...

I miss him, I hope he enjoys his first long weekend in a month, with the baby crying and all kinds of traffic in the park where my daugher lives.

I'm painting my kitchen cabinets today...so I'll be busy.

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He'll get over it! ....20 years into my marriage I may have Pussy footed around, now 30+ years, I'd confront both of them at the same time with a "Yo, let's get something straight!" If he chooses to stay pissed off, then tell he can kiss your A$$ and then go about your day! He'll be back.....and make up Sex is always great.........He'll run out of underwear soon enough!! Marriage is like a diet, gotta shake things up a bit every now and then!! lol

Not to change the subject, but what color you painting the cabinets? I have cabinets that need painting and I don't want them white.......I've been looking all week for color ideas.....can't find any!..

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He's at my daughters house and has been since the other night...he's going to get tired of that, but now that I've had some time to think...maybe he can stay there a little longer...I enjoyed the whole bed last night, not having the covers stolen...and guess what no animals in the bed either...

I miss him, I hope he enjoys his first long weekend in a month, with the baby crying and all kinds of traffic in the park where my daugher lives.

I'm painting my kitchen cabinets today...so I'll be busy.

Thatah girl! xbeer2)

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My ex loved to start arguments over anything. If I was wrong about something, and she were pissed, she would keep digging at it until I would blow up; and that takes a while. If she had done something wrong, it was still my fault because she argued that it was something I had done originally that made her screw up.

We were driving home from somewhere one afternoon and she was in one of her regular argumentative moods, and I wouldn't respond at all. We stopped at a traffic light and she got out of the car yelling that she was just going to walk because she couldn't stand to be in the car with me. By the time the light turned green she had gotten a little ways down the street, thinking that I was going to pull up beside her and tell her to get back in the car. We were about 2 miles from the house, and it was starting to rain. I drove right by. The pleasant spring rain and the two mile walk home helped her to cool off. Get out of the car and say you'd rather walk? Hope you're wearing comfortable shoes.

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I'm always fighting with my DF. I like to make sure bills are paid and such, and stuff us women like to take care of. Of course, he's 11 yrs younger than me so he's still stuck in the "I just want to be on the computer and play video games all day" phase. lol. This phase definitely doesn't apply to any of the guys here. 8-)

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